We all have labels, like it or not, that just seems to be how society works. Some are inherent, Girl, Boy, Student, Worker etc. and some are as products of our behavior, real or perceived.
if we have a negative label, due to some lifestyle choice we have made, why do we want people to accept our negatives as ok? Isn’t the fact that it is not ok why people don’t praise it the first place?
The point is…what’s your label? is it good? is it bad? if it’s good live up to it, if it’s bad change it, don’t devolve into it and hope the rest of us follow your fashion. Jussayin’.